Writer and editor Evette Dionne joins us to talk about how to fight fatphobia and advocate for yourself in healthcare settings, how to navigate difficult conversations and challenge weight stigma in close relationships, why the body-positive movement needs to be intersectional, how oppression is learned and can be unlearned, why it’s important to acknowledge our privilege, and so much more! Plus, Christy answers a listener question about how to deal with friends and family who are stuck in diet culture.

Evette Dionne is a Black Feminist culture writer, editor, and scholar. Presently, she’s the senior editor at Bitch Media and regularly contributes stories about race, size, gender, and popular culture to Teen Vogue, The Guardian, Cosmopolitan, the New York Times, Refinery29, Harper's Bazaar, MIC, and other print and digital publications. Find her online at EvetteDionne.com.

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We Discuss:

• Evette’s relationship with food growing up, including connecting food with family and love

• Evette’s experience with food and body shaming from authority figures

• Fatphobic school environments, Evette’s experience with harassment, and how it led to the development of agoraphobia

• Evette’s transition into the workforce and obtaining her GED, and her experience with food policing from a manager

• Navigating food choices with newfound independence

• The pressure on college students to avoid weight gain

• The connection between emotional eating and restriction, and using food as a coping mechanism

• The traumatizing effect of weight concerns

• The threshold of acceptable fatness

• Medical fatphobia, weight stigma in healthcare, and the need for self-advocacy at the doctor (refusing to be weighed, asking for pillows at the gynecologist, and insisting that any specialist tests are pushed to the yearly physical)

• Fat shaming getting in the way of proper medical care for people in larger bodies

• Compassion and Health at Every Size as effective intervention strategies

• Patriarchy, sexism, racism, ableism, and why the body-positive movement must be feminist, political, and intersectional

• The radical origins of body positivity in fat acceptance and the need to push for a more equitable world

• Empowerment vs activism and the need for systemic change

• Learning and unlearning our own oppression, building the body of knowledge around us so we can fight back, and learning how to have these difficult conversations in order to challenge someone’s fatphobia within close relationships

• Giving people the space to grow while also barring yourself against toxic relationships

• How we are all complicit in this culture that makes it unsafe for marginalized bodies

• The problem with staying in the comfortable stage of the body-positive journey

• Moving away from black-and-white thinking

• Acknowledging privilege, moving beyond shame, and grappling with feeling defensive

Resources Mentioned

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• Hunger by Roxane Gay

• Braving the Wilderness by Brene Brown

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Listener Question of the Week

How do we create distance between ourselves and diet culture? What do we do it diet talk is permeating your relationships with friends and family? Is there a way to push people towards anti-diet ideas before they’re ready? How does “planting seeds” work? Can New Year's’ Resolutions fit into this distancing process? How do we make our boundaries around diet talk clear to those around you?