Food Psych #272: Rebuilding Body Trust, the Importance of Unlearning, and Why Body Liberation Is for Everyone with Hilary Kinavey and Dana Sturtevant
Introduction & Guest Bio:
Be Nourished co-founders Hilary Kinavey and Dana Sturtevant return to discuss the process of unlearning, including/especially for healthcare providers; wanting body liberation for others while thinking it doesn’t apply to ourselves; how diet culture reinforces perfectionism; how the wellness industry hasn’t actually improved wellness; rebuilding trust in our relationship with food and our bodies; and so much more.
In 2005, Hilary Kinavey, MS, LPC and Dana Sturtevant, MS, RD co-founded Be Nourished, a community based outpatient clinic and professional training institute that created Body Trust®—a strength-based, trauma-informed, scientifically grounded healing modality that encourages movement toward a compassionate, weight-inclusive model of radical self-care to address body oppression, heal body shame and associated patterns of chronic dieting and disordered eating. The Be Nourished Training Institute offers programs for helping professionals and educators interested in adopting client-centered, trauma-informed, justice-based approaches to healing—including an intensive cohort-based six-month training to become a Certified Body Trust Provider. Their work has been featured in The New York Times, Self, Real Simple, Huffington Post, and the TEDx stage. Learn more at BeNourished.org.
We Discuss:
What Hilary and Dana have been up to since their previous appearances on Food Psych
The difference between “all are welcome here,” and “this was made with you in mind”
The Body Trust model, and how it integrates social-justice work
The problem with the focus on eating-disorder behaviors in eating-disorder treatment
Healthcare providers being in process with their own healing
Wanting body liberation for others while thinking it “doesn’t apply” to ourselves
Rebuilding trust in our relationship with food and our bodies
The isolating nature of diet culture and weight stigma
Grief and reckoning as part of the recovery process
How diet culture reinforces perfectionism, and divesting from it as part of recovery
Dana and Hilary’s latest program, The School of Unlearning, and their thoughts on the concept of unlearning
Why it’s important for healthcare providers to engage in unlearning
The history of dietetics, particularly as a vehicle for diet culture
Hilary’s views on the current state of the field of psychology, and where she would like to see it evolve
Healthism and the COVID-19 pandemic
How the wellness industry has grown significantly, yet our wellness hasn’t improved
Trauma, its causes, and its effects on health
Other forms of knowing
The long process of unlearning
Being OK with not knowing
Moving away from the “expert” role as healthcare providers
Resources Mentioned
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My book, Anti-Diet: Reclaim Your Time, Money, Well-Being, and Happiness Through Intuitive Eating
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Hilary’s first Food Psych® episode
Dana’s first Food Psych episode
Dr. Crystal Jones’ quote “There’s a huge difference between ‘all are welcome’ and ‘this was created with you in mind.’”
“Fighting Fat Discrimination, but Still Wanting to Lose Weight” (Article where Dana was interviewed for The New York Times) (TW/CW: Weight-stigmatizing language, weight numbers)
The Dance of the Dissident Daughter by Sue Monk Kidd (Bookshop) (Amazon)
Fearing the Black Body by Sabrina Strings (Bookshop) (Amazon)
Deb Burgard’s work, and her Food Psych episodes #117 and #220